Okay, so every relationship either the male or female worries. This is not a good thing, but insecurities ruin a relationship. I have seen so many relationships fail because someone is worried they are being cheated on, or there is someone else in the picture. I have seen marriages fail because their significant other comes home from work late, and they believe they are being cheated on. YOU HAVE TO TRUST your partner, that is just how it works. I mean unless someone gave you a reason not to trust them, you need too! A marriage is suppose to be open and beautiful, not always worrying and arguing. I have witnessed plenty of marriages come to an end because the WOMEN are insecure about themselves, which is not suppose to happen! Your husband married you FOR A REASON! Just keep trying to remind yourself that you are married, not just in a simple relationship.
Reasons why this could ruin a marriage:
Men, and women HATE to be accused of anything. Whether its lying, or cheating. That argument is always the worst. I know this would tear my marriage apart, specially because there is no trust.
Women like to be reminded why they are important to you, or why you love them. So if a women does not feel like she is good enough for you and you do not remind her, she WILL keep being insecure and keep thinking there is someone else. When a women has her mind set on something, she will do anything to prove she is right, even tear apart her marriage.
Men do cheat, it's a known thing BUT so do women! Why can't anyone be faithful anymore, its terrible. I feel like if you are married, please be faithful to your significant other it makes things so much easier.
If you find yourself questioning anything about your marriage, you have to find out if you have always questioned it. Has there been anytime where you actually trusted your partner?
I never understood why couples can't talk when it comes to not trusting, or thinking their is someone else. I mean this all comes down to communication as well.
I like this post a lot. It breaks down exactly why marriages/relationships fail and don't work out. Everybody has at least gone through one relationship like this, where they don't trust their partner. And cheating or suspicion is the main reason.
ReplyDeleteI think you're writing on an important topic. But remember your audience: they are both professional web writers and an academic audience, so make sure to attend to both academic conventions (trimming overcapitalization) and using data to support your points.
ReplyDeleteOn the content side of things, you might be generalizing. *Some* men do cheat. What's a good estimate/percentage? Show us. Can you use some detailed examples to drive these points home? Remember that audiences need to be convinced, and academic audiences require proof in the form of data and details. That's what will set this blog apart from others who are writing about failing relationships or marriages as a form of venting. We want to see proof to spur action, right?
Finally, where's the second post this week?