Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Growing Apart
One of the number one reasons why marriages fail. I have learned that a lot of marriages fall apart because people deicide to go their separate ways. It's so shocking to my opinion that people feel this way in marriage, but at the same time its understandable. Inside the inside of it all, everything boils down to the same situation, LACK OF COMMUNICATION this the reasons why people grow apart. It is not that hard to simply send out a text, or even a quick call to let your spouse know that you are either running late, or have other plans. Any couple that has been together for many years surely knows that they do not have to be together every night. Yet! At the same time, do not feel the need to try to reach out and tell them what's going on! This problem can easily be avoided. I have discovered that men and women look at communication as something totally different. Men feel their should be a clean purpose while talking, while women decide to go around so many different topics all at one time. I feel as if, men do not feel the need to communicate as much as women do. Men are the types to just kind of sit down relax, drink a beer and cool down from their day. While women WANT to speak about their day, e v e r y single aspect of their day, you know why? Because I LOVE to do it while I'm talking to my boyfriend, or even my dad for that matter. It's hard to save a marriage where only one person is communicating, or trying to make the effort to communicate with the other. Men and women never see eye to eye on anything, and I've learned that the hard way. If only married couples could learn how to communicate to keep from growing apart.
http://voices.yahoo.com/reasons-why-married-couples-grow-apart-successful-6859456.html
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/04/01/6-ways-men-and-women-communicate-differently/
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I agree that a lot of marriage relationships does not work out because of the lack of communication.At times men and women also assume that what they are going through, is already understood by their other half. It is good to explain every stress or happiness by simple and short conversation. In my post I mention about trying and spending time if we want to get financial benefit and in your too, I can see that all we have to do is to talk and try about any situation.
ReplyDeleteMen and woman are both equal human beings but think very differently, I agree in the fact that most relationships have a lack of communication and need to learn how to build up on that but what about other common reasons? Like maybe affairs, loss of interest in a marriage, new born baby affects? All of these other reasons happen as often as you might think and do affect a relationship entirely. Lack of communication can be avoided, how? how does it truly begin? what can cause it or fix it?
ReplyDeleteI believe that when you are in a relationship communication is very important, if you don't sit down and talk to your spouse about what's going on and express feeling to one another things can go really wrong real fast.
ReplyDeleteI agree, one of the big reason why marriages/relationships fail is defiantly because of the lack of communication between the two people. I also agree with you, that men stray away from talking about things with their wife/girlfriend more than the woman, which sucks!
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