As I have stated plenty of time in my pervious post, Communication is a HUGE necessity in having a marriage succeed. When a couple does not communicate properly they do not move forward in their relationship, which is what being in a marriage is all about. When two people marry, they are suppose to build each other up to make sure they both move on in life, but with one another by their side at all times. Communication makes this possible! Not communicating with each other just puts the whole marriage on hold, sometimes makes things go backwards.
Communicating with each other, gives you understanding, which makes things a lot easier. When someone feels that their are not being understood, then they stop communicating. I strongly believe that is why people stop communicating, because someone else does not understand what they are saying. Sometimes people don't communicate properly so it makes certain people feel the need to stop talking, and expressing their feelings and so forth. For instance, when my boyfriend, father, or anyone does not understand what I am trying to say, I give up and just leave it alone. When people don't understand what I'm saying it makes me feel angry! I know others feel the exact same way. This is something that couples need to work on, being understand of their significant other.
Non-communication in a marriage can also affect the intimacy part of the relationship. Everybody knows that intimacy has a big role in a marriage, and when that goes down hill, so does the marriage. When a couple communicates, they communicate about when they want to touch, and when no too, if there is so understanding between the two, then there is a serious problem.
Making time to communicate, or too understand your significant other can fix this problem ASAP!
http://www.theravive.com/services/communication-marriage.htm
http://www.ehow.com/way_5763083_can-lack-communication-affect-marriage_.html
I love the anecdotal examples: they help the reader really understand the situation through the lens of your life. So you start here with "so when my boyfriend or father..." but we don't actually get a story/situation where you show the miscommunication in close-up. How about expanding there? This text needs some ammunition in the form of supplemental support. Back up those main points.
ReplyDeleteAlso--where do you use the URLs you have here in the text? If you use URLs, bury them as hyperlinks in specific words within the paragraphs. Otherwise, you'll need to create a full works cited entry for each one, also with in-text citations, in which you name your source right in the paragraph used.
I could not agree more with your viewpoint on this! Communication is indeed such a vital tool in a relationship I constantly find myself reminding my girlfriend on how important it is. I enjoyed this post, and appreciate you sharing your own opinion on how it can get tricky when you're trying to translate your thoughts when conversing with someone and the person listening doesn't understand. It can get frustrating!
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